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Sarah and I are still together. But maybe not for much longer. I just did a Marriage Records search and found out that she's still married to somebody. She didn't tell me she'd been married at all but apparently she married this foreign national to keep him in the country. I'm kind of angry with her for not saying anything about it. I have a right to know, right? I don't know what to do now. I wouldn't have minded that she was married if she's told me. I know it's not a real marriage, it's just one of those green card marriages, but at the same time I think it's kind of screwed up that she'd keep it a secret. Maybe I'm overreacting, but what would you do in my situation?  I wish I could find people to talk to about this, but there's not a support group for duped boyfriends, is there? God, I know the situation is going to come to a had sooner or later and she's probably going to say I invaded her privacy. Which I did. This is a horrible situation. I wish I'd never seen her face.

Where to begin? To my surprise, things with Sarah have remained pretty free and easy. Yeah everything is going great though she slacks on the dishes sometimes and that bothers me but I've been trying to remain cool. Why start a fight over something trivial like that? We've also been doing a lot of people search together, which I think is great for bonding time. Maybe some people would think that it's weird but what's wrong with a running a couple people searches now and again? Nothing, that's what I say. It brings us together, makes us happy, helps me ignore the dishes...there's just no downside.

Actually now that I think of it, Sarah did piss me off a while back by sending me this guide on how to go from manly to metro. WTF? She said she likes me the way I am and then sends me that shit? Whatever, I'll let it go...for now.

Things are still pretty frickin awesome between me and Sarah. In fact, they've never been better, to be quite honest. I mean, we still have our little tiffs now and again, but nothing like before. We each have our role and our duties that we both know we need to fulfill, and we just go from there. We have a white board that we write things on, stuff like chores or favors we need from each other, and so far it's worked swimmingly. So yeah, I have no complaints anymore. Zero. Zilch. Nada. I can keep going. Shall I? No, I won't. Okay, despite all this I've been keeping up with all the people search madness, still. There's a great site that helps you find relative. I think it'll help you people looking for old relatives you've lost touch with. Or you can just stick to good old fashioned person search. Read these hilarious Other Reasons For 3am Phone Call.

Sarah's great, guys. I just wanted to emphasize that. Apparently some people were getting the impression that I wasn't totally appreciative of her and everything she does for me. I am. I just said that living with her -- with any girl, really -- takes some getting used to. And it's true! Anyone who's ever lived with a significant other, or even just a roommate, will tell you that for sure. I've been trying to lay off the people search for awhile, though. I'm getting to a place where I don't really NEED to be looking up people that I don't really know. After all, I don't need to be checking up on someone I'm going on a date with. I already know pretty much everything there is to know about Sarah. I mean we're still learning a lot about each other, but I totally trust her. So, I still might go out and find people for the heck of it, but it's not something I'm going to be doing all the time anymore. So as Sarah and I have been getting closer, we are thinking about buying a bunch of plants for our place. I'm talking a bunch of plants, like a forest or something. Neither of us know how to maintain plants, though, so I read this article on Buying a Green Thumb. It was actually very helpful.

Well, living with Sarah is getting a little easier. I'm used to her stuff a little bit more now. Also, she's so good about cleaning, that I can't be mad at the extra frills hanging around the place. She's also a really good cook, which has been awesome. We've been trying to use a new recipe every week. Although last night was a disaster. We tried this tofu stroganoff because Sarah wants to try and eat healthier. It was so gross. I couldn't even pretend to like it. Thankfully, neither could she. We threw it away and order pizza and then did a person search, which is the perfect combination. It's easy to eat pizza in a our jammies and sit by the computer while we person search together. It's always so exciting when we find someone who we've been looking for. I also bought Coachella tickets for Sarah for Valentine's Day, so we looked up some Coachella essentials we would need. Sarah is so excited. She said it was the best valentine she had ever gotten. That made me feel like a great boyfriend.

Living with Sarah has been a bit of an adventure. I've never lived with a girlfriend before, and I didn't realize the difference between casual stay overs and actual living together. She has so much stuff! And all of it is so girly! We have "knick-knacks," as she calls them, all over the place. She puts scented stuff in every room. My bathroom smells like a meadow. When I search people she makes me little snacks, all healthy and portion controlled since that's how she eats. I know it's hard to find a person exactly yourself, and I'm not sure I'd want to, but the differences are interesting. On the other hand, for Valentine's Day she made this incredibly awesome and romantic dinner, and had all these candles and things around. It was absolutely perfect! Anyway, enough about my girl--I love having her around. I also love this web site called rant farm. They have the best stuff on there! Anyway, I promised Sarah I'd help her find some new shelves for the living room. Since she's been here, the place is really starting to look like a proper home. Gotta say, I'm liking that a lot. 

So, Sarah works as a personal assistant, and her last boss just moved out of state, and since she didn't want to leave me, she didn't move with her. So she's been looking for a new person to work for. She tends to work for creative types--she's really patient and amazingly good at keeping people organized. Our apartment is totally neat and tidy like all the time, and she doesn't even bother me about it, happy to do it all herself. Anyway, she's been looking for a new boss, and boy have my people searching skills come in handy. She has to spend a lot of time with these people, including a lot of time alone with them in their houses. I don't want her to work for just anyone, so I look up all her potential employers. She was really excited about this one job, and then I found out the dude had been arrested for assault! Turns out he attacked a former assistant of his. No way was she gonna work for him after that. I've been helping her do a person search for someone good to work for. So far the person search hasn't turned up too many good leads, but we'll keep looking. Meanwhile, on a lighter note, she sent me this link on the strangest facebook applications that was pretty funny. And check out the above links for more people searching goodness, courtesy of me, sent to you. B-)

She did it. Sarah gave me the greatest Christmas I've ever received or ever heard of anyone else receiving. That's right, she moved in with me a few days before Christmas! The place was strewn with boxes and new furniture and Charlie Brown's tree would have outshone ours, but we had the greatest first Christmas together. So yes, this will just be even more sappiness on my part, but I promise to give some great links as payoff for reading my post. Wait, you know what? I won't bore you, but rather implore you to go find someone for yourself. Trust me, I've never been this happy and content before. Make it a New Year's resolution, and actually follow through with it! Find people with this excellent people search engine. Okay, next time I promise I'll be more interesting. But hey, at least I gave you guys some useful links!  

It doesn't get better than this! I've met the greatest girl ever and she's mine. It's going so well, I'm even thinking of asking her to move in. I know its soon, but she's the one I'm sure of it. When we met (on a blind date) last month, I people searched her before actually meeting her, so that really helped put my mind at ease. So I was able  to open up and trust her, hence the relationship moved fast. We share the same interests, I can't stop thinking about her, I'm seriously smitten! its pathetic, I know, but I don't care! I had a couple of blind dates lined up, but most didn't pass the people search test. Sarah was the first blind date I actually went on, and I couldn't get her out of my mind. The next few dates I went on were a washout, I couldn't wait to get the hell out of there and to be with Sarah. I know I am probably boring the hell out of you all, but you don't know how good this is for me. Here's some people search goodness to make up for my pathetic post. These are some awesome people search sites I just recently found:
Private Eye
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I am SINGLE. I know I mentioned it in my last post, but I think I was still in the sad post-break up phase. Now I'm totally over that and into the ready to move on stage. Bring on the ladies! Ya feel me? The only thing is that when you go out to bars "on the prowl" so to speak, then you never meet anyone worthwhile and you run the risk of settling, and regretting your decisions the next morning. I mean it's not like I ever had those experiences.....Anyways, now that I am back on the dating scene, I want to be extra careful I don't get mixed up with any psychos, but I have a history of crazy girlfriends. Seriously, and my friends are tired of it. So, since I'm such a people finder extraordinaire, I've decided that I will people search any girl I am seriously interested in. It's easy to find a person and their sordid history. How was dating possible before you could find people online and then stalk their MySpace or whatever? It must have been way rough. It's not just people dating who need to be wary, it's important to know how to keep children safe online too. I have a nephew who comes to visit me a lot, and I am very cautious when he is around the computer. Anyways, I gotta get ready for the bar scene with my boys. Check ya later skaters.